When you want something, you want it now, donât you?
I mean, remember how hard it was waiting for Santa all December long?
(Who am I kidding ⊠âwas?â It still is, right? Okay, so Iâm the only big kid around here!)
The law of attraction teaches us that we have only to focus on our deepest desires and they will, sooner or later, show up. Itâs just that âlaterâ part that sticks in the craw.
Here are 3 top tips for getting those results sooner:
1. Let it go. When youâve planted the âseed of desireâ your work is done. Just like planting any seed, nature takes care of the rest. All the affirmations and visualising rituals afterwards are signs of your impatience and mean youâre really focussing on the lack of the thing again. (Otherwise why would you keep noticing it isnât here yet?)
I know itâs easier said than done to let go, however, so the real key to that is through mindfulness. Simply watch your thoughts about whatever you desire, notice how strong the emotional attachment seems to be and grade that emotionâs strength from zero to ten – ten being the strongest.
Sit for 3 to 5 minutes and simply watch your thoughts, then go back to the emotion about it, and then to the thoughts again.
(Sometimes your mind will wander off to places of its own – thatâs fine. Just gently bring it back whenever you notice itâs done that.)
At the end of your few minutes, grade the emotionâs strength again. Youâll find it will have diminished! The mere act of observing your thoughts takes the power out of them.
2. âAct as ifâ by changing your physiology. Shifting your body language is a favourite trick of mine for many different purposes, and this is no exception. When youâre focussed on lack, youâll hold more tension in your body than when things are going your way.
Notice where those tensions are, (neck and face are very useful areas to check!), and then imagine how youâll feel when everything youâve asked for has arrived. Adjust your body language to the way youâd walk, talk, breathe and move on that day ⊠and youâll be amazed at how fast the energy youâre putting out changes.
When that happens, as you know, youâll start attracting similar energy – all the goodies included!
3. Use The Gratitude Attitude Platitude. Noticing what you have and being thankful for it works, plain and simple. Your life is rich with so many things and as one wise teacher pointed out, (Byron Katie I believe), the idea that you badly need what you do not have is a form of insanity. Clearly, you donât need it or you wouldnât be here, right? So notice whatâs working, feel grateful, even feel love if itâs appropriate, and go about your day.
The rest will show up, right on cue.
And if youâve followed these steps, thatâs likely to be sooner rather than later!
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