How to fix a broken heart.

How to fix a broken heart. It sounds easy – like fixing a broken leg.  But why does emotional pain seem to linger and for some people, last a lifetime?

As I’ve been happily married for almost a decade, you might have some trouble imagining that I once closed myself off to any kind of romantic liaison – for years.

It’s slightly embarrassing to admit it now but I believed that love would always hurt and that any woman was potentially dangerous.

Looking back, it was like I lived in a jungle keeping constant vigil for hungry lions prowling in my direction!

Now, don’t get me wrong.

I didn’t live like a hermit.

I dated women – mostly from dating sites on the net.

Curiously, they’d almost all say the same thing!

“I don’t want to get close to anyone – I’ve been hurt before.”

The funny thing was, when they said that to me, I’d feel wounded. After all, I’d reason, it wasn’t me who hurt them!

Slowly, it dawned on me that I was doing precisely the same thing!

And then one day I woke up and five years had passed and I knew deep down that I didn’t want to be alone for the rest of my life.

But I was scared.

Are Relationships Really Dangerous?

I was twice divorced and had had my heart broken more times than I wanted to count. Either all women were dangerous or I was just hopeless at relationships!

What other explanation could there be?

I started re-examining what I knew. After all, I was a trained psychotherapist and often in situations like this I’ll mentally put an imaginary client in the chair.

If I was ever to figure out how to fix a broken heart, I knew I had to see things differently.

Could it really be that all women were destined to break my heart?

I could see that was a preposterous idea.

So then, could it be that I just didn’t have relationships figured out?

That was possible, but there again, nobody else had a rule book either and some people were getting through life comfortably coupled up without ever breaking each other’s hearts.

Then a friend said something to me that hit home. To say the least!

(Fortunately, he’s a fellow psychotherapist, so we understood each other.)

He asked if I liked myself.

Simple question, right?

I grimaced, sheepishly said I wasn’t perfect, but I was kind of okay, I supposed.

“That’s how you’d describe a shabby old lampshade in a junk store,” said my friend. “Don’t you think it’s a bit arrogant for you to expect someone to love you like a crystal chandelier when that’s how you feel about yourself?”

BAM!

Could it really be that if I changed my view of myself, I’d feel safe to love again … and also that it would show up?

There was, as they say, only one way to find out! I had to work on my self esteem.

(It’s amazing how we’ll settle for a dowdy self image and come to think of it as normal!)

Fortunately, I know how to neutralise painful memories from my NLP training.

(Why had I never thought to do that before? If you ever wanted to know how to fix a broken heart, that alone would take most people there in mere minutes!)

Then I did some belief work – again it works instantly – it’s just that I’d never done it before. I uncovered some uncomfortable ideas about myself and gave them a polish!

Within a few weeks I was ready.

I felt good about myself. I knew – right deep down – that I was a good catch for someone. I also knew that I wouldn’t settle for less than someone who felt good about themselves too. Somebody who loves life and laughs easily. Someone who felt good in their own skin.

That was in the summer of 2006.

I even stopped actively looking. I simply let go … and let life be.

And sure enough, in December of that year, just a couple of weeks before Christmas, I met the love of my life.

We were married very soon after and we’ve been happily together ever since.

Yes … a fairytale ending!

If you’d like to follow the same steps I took, if you’d like to know how to fix a broken heart – yours in particular, then you’ll be thrilled to learn I’ve recorded it all not just in a book but in 4 hypnosis audios.

You’ll discover how you can quickly and easily neutralise painful memories.

You’ll find an easy way to feel good about yourself – in just fifteen minutes!

You’ll discover how to protect yourself from further heartbreak without closing down – so you’re free and safe to let love in!

Just imagine how freeing it is when a romantic gesture doesn’t feel like a threat! Picture yourself holding someone’s hand and that warm glow that feels like a smile spreading through your whole body as your eyes meet … and sparkle with love for each other!

Have you forgotten? Did you think you couldn’t ever have that again? You couldn’t be more wrong!

Broken hearts can be fixed as easily as broken bones – and much, much faster.

Click this link to find out how you can download “The Magic Of Moving On” today – and get your love of life – and your love life – back!