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Love, I contend, does not hurt. Love is the warmest, fuzziest, most gorgeous, exciting yummy … thing… you could ever wish to bathe in. Endings hurt. Loss of love hurts. Rejection hurts … but, you are by now crying, what difference does it make what hurt you? Isn’t hurt still hurt?
The difference, dear reader, is everything, for once you see the distinction, healing can begin. And once you have healed, you can have your love life back again, with all the joys and heart-flutterings that accompany it, just as Nature intended!
It isn’t love that hurts, it’s fear. Fear of rejection, of failure, of it all ending in tears again. Fear, when you boil it down, is nothing more than creating a future, which by definition has not yet happened, in your head. By this means you create horror movies and personal tragedies worthy of Shakespeare himself – and then base life-changing decisions upon them – as if they were real! The past, as Anthony Robbins, the great American self-help guru is fond of saying, does not equal the future.
As a veteran of two divorces, and subsequently as a five year dabbler on dating sites, I can testify that out there in Singlesville there dwells a vast army of very frightened, lonely people. Every one of them hopes they will be loved some day again, but most are not prepared to take the risk of actually letting go and falling in love themselves. Ooh, no! What if they got hurt again?
It is understandable, especially when you’ve been through it more than once. But there is a way out. The slate can be wiped clean. For those of you who want your love life back, click here…
