If you want to know how to attract love using the law of attraction, you’d first better know how the law of attraction works!
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There can be few more frustrating and painful situations than to fall in love with someone who doesn’t seem interested in you. The question I’m often asked about this is: “Can I use the law of attraction to make someone fall in love with me?”
As a person who likes straight answers myself, it’s only fair that I tell you straight: The answer is no.
But then you want to know why not, and the answer to that is a little more complex, and will give you some hope.
Free will is just that – free. So you can’t influence someone else to feel a certain way about anything. If they don’t like tomato sauce there’s nothing you can do about that, and if they don’t fancy you, it’s the same story I’m afraid.
However, if you are in that unfortunate situation of wanting someone to love you who just doesn’t seem to respond the way you’d like them to, then you need a quick course in law of attraction principles. At least, this one, which is really all there is:
The law of attraction doesn’t give you what you want. It gives you what you are.
Now, I’ve written a whole book about this, (The Book Of Being – there’s a link on this page), but in a short post you’ll have to trust me on the notion as we head straight for the instructions. Well, just one instruction:
If you want love, you have to be love.
What that really means is, you have to like yourself – a lot. Like your taste in clothes, your sense of humour, your way of life. But don’t be arrogant or inflexible about it. What you need to remember is what Neale Donald Walsch taught us in “Conversations With God” – life is forgiving, not forgetting.
Let me break it down for you. Give a smile. To do that well, you have to feel some warmth inside. Give a compliment. To do that, you have to notice what you appreciate. Give some kindness. To do that you have to have a sense of having enough energy for yourself and some left over.
Don’t just bestow these things on the focus of your affections. Give it liberally to all and sundry.
Will this make the person you so desire fall in love with you? Possibly not. In fact, probably not.
But it will make you feel full of love, (feel full = fulfilled), and it will free you to move on. It will make you like your life whether you’re single or not. Liking yourself makes you likable, and from there it’s a short step to finding love – which will just show up naturally and in its own good time.
You’ll no longer feel desperate, you won’t ever be lonely and heartache will have given way to love.
The message is really very short and sweet: If you want a love life, you have to have a love of life.
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