[headline_arial_extra_large_centered color=”#cc0000″]How To Attract A Job[/headline_arial_extra_large_centered]
Hereâs what youâre NOT going to learn in this article:
- Interview skills
- how to fill in an application form …
or any of those basics youâre probably blue in the face trying to get right.
And therein lies your problem … in the trying.
So hereâs what you ARE going to learn
- How to make yourself stand out from the crowd
- How to solve your problem without necessarily having a job at all!
- Why job opportunities should start to come looking for you.
If youâre okay with that agenda, letâs crack on.
Start With The Outcome In Mind
It may sound like a silly question, but Iâm going to ask it anyway: Why do you want a job? Maybe itâs because youâre bored, (no sympathy for that – just get a hobby!) More likely, however, you need money.
Letâs dig a little deeper. Why do you need money?
Now, I know thatâs a really silly question, but stick with me.
Youâre probably yelling things like: âTo pay the bills and feed my kids and keep a roof over my head you …!â
Okay, okay. Thereâs no need to be rude!
I havenât finished yet. Why do you want to do all of those things?
Now, before you send for the men in white coats … one more …
How would it feel to have all those things handled?
I donât want to put words in your mouth but I imagine it would feel great, wouldnât it? Youâd have a mixture of feelings, I imagine, such as relief, gratitude, happiness, maybe even joy or euphoria.
Now, imagine you could feel like that right now. Donât imagine the job, imagine the feelings.
Just close your eyes and imagine that, for any reason at all, you were feeling great.
If thatâs hard, try adjusting your body language. Uncross your legs, let your shoulders relax a little and put a smile on your face … even a small one will make a difference. (Smiling releases endorphins – the âfeel goodâ chemicals of the brain).
Now, okay, this is a brief article – but can you summon up an inkling at least of feeling good?
Next: Start Giving!
Yes, I know. Youâve got next to nothing and Iâm telling you to give. I donât mean you need to give your things or money though.
Just about everyone you encounter is wrapped up in their own world of troubles. They may have worries like yours or their kid is sick or something is raining on their parade.
You donât know, but Iâve never met anyone who said theyâd had enough happiness or compliments or good things.
So give smiles – yes even to strangers. Give compliments. If appropriate, give advice. (Tell them to read this!) If you know them well enough, give a hug.
Make this your predominant behaviour. None of these cost a dime and all are worth a fortune.
Now, Change Your State
Hereâs my final tip (for now). Your worry about your situation is coming from a place of fear. I canât put this any better than Einstein who proclaimed, âYou cannot solve a problem in the same state of mind that created it.â
Now, when you were summoning those positive feelings a few minutes ago, I told you to shift your body language. You can decide to deliberately be in a state, such as âplayfulâ or âresourcefulâ or âcreativeâ (or all three) and just put your attention on your situation in that âmodeâ for a moment – and notice what floats into your awareness.
When I did that a few years ago I realised I didnât need a job; I needed income. The next thought was that I could sell my writing skills and, putting my writing resume on elance.com landed me a thousand dollar contract – overnight.
I canât guarantee you that – or any – result except one. When you follow these simple principles you will feel good – immediately.
In my experience people like being around people who feel good, because they make them feel good too.
Doors open when you become attractive from the inside in that kind of way.
Of course, you donât have to take up these ideas. But from now on, youâll know that feeling the way you do is a choice. And you have nothing to lose by trying the alternative.
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